Should You Switch Instruments, or Push Through? How a Multi-Instrumentalist Helps Students Decide
A few months into lessons, a familiar moment arrives for a lot of students. The guitar that felt so exciting in week one now feels like homework, and the piano across the room starts to look a lot more appealing. The pull toward a different instrument can show up at any age, and it almost always brings the same quiet worry with it. Is wanting to switch a sign that the student chose an instrument that does not fit, that they are about to quit, that they will never really learn any one thing?
That worry is worth taking seriously, because sometimes a switch is exactly right and sometimes it is just the friction of learning showing up on schedule. Telling the two apart is the hard part, and it is a question the best teachers face all the time.
Neel S. is a good person to ask, because he has lived it from every side. He is a guitar and voice teacher at Tunelark and a multi-instrumentalist who came to music as a kid through classical piano, walked away from it, fell hard for the guitar, and then circled back to the piano years later and learned to love it. His take on switching instruments is not a simple yes or no. It is closer to a way of listening to what the pull is actually telling you.
The difference between “not your instrument” and the normal friction of learning
Neel’s first move is to take the pressure off the question, because some amount of struggle is built into learning anything with strings or keys or a voice. “Every instrument comes with some friction,” he says. “Our hands have to adapt, our vocal cords need to be trained, and our muscle control needs to be strengthened.” The awkward, unrewarding feeling of the early weeks is not a verdict. It is the price of admission on every instrument there is, and feeling it does not mean a student chose badly.
He knows the feeling from the inside. “I started learning classical piano as a child. I loved music so much, but I was really struggling to fall in love with the piano. I would practice, but it didn’t feel all that gratifying to get the piece.” Looking back, he can see why: he never got to choose his own music, and a strict, traditional approach did not fit how he learned. So he set the piano down, and before long the guitar started calling to him. The moment he picked it up, everything changed. “I was learning so quickly, playing and singing songs within weeks,” he says. “I was absolutely in love, and it became a huge part of my life, even being my entrance into singing songs on stages all over the world.”
That contrast is what makes his test for students so useful. “The difference between picking the right instrument and powering through frustration is that the right instrument will show you that it’s worth it, every step of the way,” he says. “You’ll hear others play it, and you’ll be moved to practice yourself. You’ll spend hours working on the same thing, but when you get it, it’s magic.” The frustration is the same on either instrument; what differs is whether, underneath it, the instrument keeps pulling you back. A student who fights the same passage and then lights up when it clicks is on the right instrument. One who never feels that pull, however dutifully they practice, may just not have met their instrument yet.
The catch is that you cannot run the test from the sidelines. “You won’t know the difference between something that isn’t a good fit, vs the usual frustration, without giving yourself a chance to see for yourself,” Neel says. That cuts both ways: it argues for staying with an instrument long enough to feel whether it pulls you back, and it gives permission to genuinely try another one. It also helps to know going in what beginning music lessons are really like before deciding an instrument is off. And Neel’s own story is the reassurance: he returned to the piano years later, now genuinely enjoys it, and teaches it. Leaving an instrument was not a door slamming shut but one he got to walk back through on his own terms.
One student, three instruments, and the goal underneath all of them
The clearest picture of how Neel handles a switch is a student who started on voice with a wonderfully specific goal: to sing comfortably and confidently at a campfire.
To get there, they brought in a guitar to accompany the singing, and it was not long before the student asked whether they could do guitar lessons too. Neel said yes, and they worked through the basics until the student could jam a little. Then something interesting happened. As Neel taught music theory using the piano for its visual clarity, the student decided they wanted to try piano, which seemed like a “simpler layout” to them. “After a couple of lessons on piano, he really found himself enjoying it,” Neel says, “and it seemed to revitalize his interest in guitar and voice, too, but from a piano-first perspective.”
Notice what did not happen. The student did not abandon voice when they picked up guitar, or abandon guitar when they picked up piano. Each instrument fed the others. The piano made the theory visible, the theory made the guitar make more sense, and it all came back around to the original campfire dream.
That is the principle Neel keeps in view whenever a student wants to switch. He is not protecting a particular instrument; he is protecting the student’s relationship with music. “My thought process was, if I can help you to enjoy improving at music, you can play any instrument you’d like,” he says. When the underlying goal is enjoying the process of getting better, the instrument in your hands this month stops being the thing at stake. A switch is not a detour away from progress. It can be the very thing that keeps a student moving when one road gets blocked.
When the teacher is the one who suggests adding an instrument
Here is the part that surprises people. Sometimes the person who raises the idea of a new instrument is not the student. It is Neel.
“I have occasionally encouraged my voice students to learn guitar or piano, either first or in tandem with voice,” he says. The reasoning is not that voice falls short. It is that every instrument has its own strengths and its own blind spots, and pairing two can cover for both. He describes the voice as “a functionally invisible instrument,” and the phrase is precise: “you really only know if you’re singing something right if you can hear what it’s supposed to sound like.” There are no frets to look at and no keys to press, so a singer who cannot yet picture a scale has little to hold onto. “If you struggle to hear the scale and therefore sing it,” Neel says, “perhaps learning to play the scale on the piano would help clarify the notes.” A visual instrument turns an abstract sound into something you can see, and the ear catches up fast once the eye gets involved.
The voice has a second limit that a second instrument quietly solves. “Another weakness of the voice is that it is monophonic and cannot play chords without a choir or the ability to record,” he says. Picking up a piano, guitar, or ukulele changes what a singer can do alone. “You can sing and play all sorts of songs and have it sound performance-ready all by yourself.”
This reframes the whole idea of switching. Often the most useful move is not trading one instrument for another but adding a second one to target the exact thing a student is stuck on. “It usually works out to have my students learn the instrument that will target the source of their plateau,” Neel says, “especially if it helps them improve their general understanding of music.” When progress stalls, the cause is sometimes a missing piece of understanding rather than a lack of effort, which is its own reason to look closely at what is actually happening when a student hits a plateau before assuming the instrument is the problem. And the payoff compounds. “Any instrument can be your main,” he says, “but you find that the more you understand about music, the easier every instrument gets.” A second instrument is not a distraction from the first. It is often the fastest way to get better at it.
Permission to try more than one wand
Ask Neel to sum up how a student should think about all of this, and he reaches for an image rather than a rule. “Find your magic wand, and then make magic,” he says. “It’s ok to try a couple of wands, or even pick more than one. Just make magic.”
It is a generous way to think about an anxious decision, and it lands especially hard for parents watching a child drift toward a different instrument, or for adult beginners quietly wondering if they bet on the one that fits. The fear in both cases is that exploring means flaking, that a real musician picks one thing and grinds. Neel’s experience points the other way. “There’s nothing wrong with learning two instruments at the same time to see which one you’re more drawn to,” he says, and the pull can run opposite to his own. “I’ve had students who feel the opposite of me, as they are much more drawn to the piano than the guitar for its sound, simplicity in layout, and ease of getting a clear tone. It’s completely a personal journey, and as a teacher, I’m here to guide my students through it.”
What draws a person to an instrument is real and worth honoring. For Neel, the guitar won out for a feeling he could name. He grew up watching artists like John Mayer and Jack Johnson move people to tears, and what he saw in both was freedom. “I found that feeling quickly on the guitar,” he says, “and the ability to express myself in every note with bends, slides, dynamics, and tons of technique is what draws me to both guitar and piano.” That kind of pull is not a tiebreaker to overrule. It is information about which instrument a student will actually keep showing up for.
It also tracks with the most surprising thing teaching has taught him about people, which has almost nothing to do with talent. “It’s more about energy, the willingness to put in time and effort, curiosity, the ability to ask questions, and love, creating space for happiness, that make the best music and best musicians,” he says. “It’s far more important than innate talent.” Energy, curiosity, and love are exactly the things a rigid one-instrument rule can quietly drain, and exactly the things a well-timed switch can restore. They are also what Neel sees in the moment that still makes teaching worth it after a decade of it: when students come in lit up about a new song, willing to go out of their way to practice something even when it is hard.
In practice, that means giving the current instrument a fair chance first, since the early friction feels identical on everything, and then trusting a sustained pull over a single hard week. For parents, exploration is part of learning rather than evidence of quitting, and a good teacher can run a half-lesson on a new instrument to test the water. Whether the answer turns out to be guitar, singing, piano, or some combination, the instrument that earns a student’s practice is the one worth chasing.
About Neel
Neel teaches guitar and voice at Tunelark, and his perspective comes from a genuinely multi-instrument life. He is a Nashville-based recording artist and session player with a Performance and Songwriting degree from Berklee College of Music and over a decade of teaching behind him, and he has studied a range of genres while performing all over the country. He works across blues, jazz, pop, and rock on guitar, and pop, rock, jazz, musical theater, and songwriting in the voice studio, and as a multi-instrumentalist he plays and teaches piano as well.
His teaching follows the same belief that runs through everything above: there is no one-size-fits-all lesson plan. He builds lessons around each student’s own favorite songs and their own pace, and he specializes in teaching how songs are actually built, so students can write their own music, learn faster, and play by ear. Most of his students end up working on something like “Hypotheticals” by Lake Street Dive, packed with great chords, quick transitions, and a memorable melody, or “Cosmic Sans” by Cory Wong for the guitar players, though he always puts the student’s own song choices first. The through-line is the one he keeps coming back to: “Music is the magic force; the instruments are just how we channel it.”
Ready to find your instrument, or your next one?
If you have been wondering whether to switch instruments, add one, or stick with the one you have, the most useful thing is a teacher who will help you read the pull instead of guessing at it. Neel does exactly that, with the lived experience of someone who has left an instrument, found another, and come back around to the first one with new love for it. Neel is currently accepting new guitar and voice students at Tunelark. Find your wand, and make some magic.
Frequently Asked Questions
Is wanting to switch instruments a sign my child is about to quit?
Usually not. Curiosity about a different instrument is more often a sign of engagement than of giving up, and the early weeks of any instrument carry the same friction, so restlessness can just be that friction talking. What matters is whether a different instrument keeps pulling at the student over time. A teacher can read that pull, and even run a short trial on the new instrument without abandoning the first.
How do I know if an instrument isn’t the right fit, or it’s just normal frustration?
Neel’s test is whether the instrument shows you it is worth it along the way. Frustration alone is not the signal, since every instrument involves long stretches of working at the same thing. The signal is the pull underneath: hearing others play moves you to practice, and landing a hard passage feels like magic. If that pull is there, you are likely just meeting normal resistance. If it never appears, another instrument may fit you better, and you can only tell by giving one a real chance.
Should a beginner learn two instruments at once?
It can work very well, especially when the second instrument covers a blind spot in the first. Neel often encourages voice students to add piano or guitar, because a visual instrument makes pitch easier to see and train, and accompanying yourself sounds complete on its own. The main limit is practice time, so a busy student can focus on one at a time while still exploring both.
Does learning a second instrument slow down progress on the first?
More often it speeds it up. Much of what makes an instrument hard is understanding music itself, and that understanding transfers. As Neel puts it, the more you understand about music, the easier every instrument gets. A second instrument that clarifies theory or rhythm can be the fastest way past a wall on the first.
My child wants to switch from one instrument to another. What should I do?
Start by talking with the teacher rather than deciding alone. A good teacher can tell a passing whim from a steady pull, and can offer a half-lesson on the new instrument so your child tests it without fully leaving the first. Keep the real goal in mind: your child enjoying and improving at music, not loyalty to one instrument.
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About Jennifer Heath
I'm Jennifer Heath, VP at Tunelark and a lifelong singer. I joined the company in 2020 and oversee much of what makes Tunelark work for our students and our teachers. That includes hiring, training, and supporting our instructors, customer and student support, marketing, and the day-to-day operations of the business.
I started voice lessons at age 7, sang with professional choirs that toured internationally through my teens, and performed solo at competitions and community events across Texas before stepping away in my twenties to study other interests, including business management. I haven't performed professionally in years, but I'll happily take the microphone at a karaoke night. Music has been in me every day of my life. Being able to spend the last six years working inside an online music education company, while traveling the world full-time, has been a perfect fit.
I believe deeply that music belongs in every life. For the self-expression, the discipline, the comfort, and the simple joy of it.
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